Stuck in a rut? Here’s how to get out of a job you hate

Stuck in a rut? Here’s how to get out of a job you hate

Do you dread going into the office every day? Here’s how to take ownership of your career before someone else does.

BY Margie Warrell, 6 min READ
 

Most of us have been there at some point in our working lives: excited about a new job or opportunity only to find, after learning the ropes to the stage we could traverse them blindfolded, that we’ve fallen into a rut.

What once excited and challenged us no longer does.

A little like the ‘boiled frog’ that doesn’t notice the water getting hotter, a quiet sense of indifference, dissatisfaction or desperation slowly creeps upon us in increments. It’s not that we’re necessarily miserable; but we are certainly not pumped. Needless to say, if you’d prefer to stay home in your PJs most days then it’s probably a sign that you need to change something.

Your job. Your career. Or maybe just your outlook.

Too often we underestimate the price we pay when we stay on in a role that we’ve out grown or with an organisation or industry that no longer aligns with our passion and vision. We tell ourselves that we’re lucky to be where we are. That we’ve worked hard for it. That the money is good. That it’s secure. That nobody loves their job all the time.

All perfectly ‘fine’ reasons for staying put. At least for now.

Don’t just focus on the risks of leaving the security of where you are now. Consider the risks of doing nothing!

But if you’ve been feeding yourself those reasons for quite some time then perhaps you haven’t considered their flip side. Rather than focusing on the risks you’d be taking on if you left the familiarity of where you are, consider the risks you are taking on if you stay.

As Kathy Calvin, President of the United Nations Foundation, shared with me during our recent interview, “When people aren’t happy in their jobs it’s not just obvious to them, it’s obvious to everyone around them.” Staying in a job that isn’t bringing out your best not only does you a disservice, it does all those around you a disservice while simultaneously depriving someone else of the valuable opportunity to step into the role you’re languishing in.

Getting out of a ‘job funk’ doesn’t necessarily mean leaving the place you are in, but leaving the spot you’re in and moving to a different place on the career lattice. It could also mean deciding to be more proactive in stretching yourself and doing things that set you up for future roles – joining a board, expanding your network or learning a new skillset. Then again, sometimes you just need to bite the bullet and take a brave leap of faith in an entirely new direction.

In my late 20s, and a little (okay, a lot) disillusioned with my marketing career, I decided to head back to university to study psychology. I wasn’t sure where it would lead. At the time I knew nothing of the world of coaching (beyond the athletic arena) and had no clear idea where this new path would take me. I just knew I wasn’t okay staying on the old one, despite the security and salary it provided.

Over the years I’ve met hundreds of people who’ve made similar moves to extract themselves out of a career rut. While they’ve all faced road bumps, not once has anyone ever expressed regret. The only regrets have been not doing it sooner! All have required courage:

Courage to say no to something good to create space for something better. Courage to take a risk. Courage to trust that when you start moving toward whatever ignites your ambition, interest or passion, you’ll discover new opportunities, make new connections and unlock new possibilities for yourself that you never would otherwise.

And I have no doubt you know people who would be testament to that.

Decide to take ownership of your career before someone makes the decision for you.

So, as Kathy shared with me, make a decision to take ownership of your career before someone else makes a decision for you. Put yourself out there (that is, outside your comfort zone!) and do whatever you can to start building your own brand of luck. Just don’t kid yourself that playing it safe and staying where you are doesn’t exact its own risks.

To quote Gloria Steinman: “Dream big. If you don’t dream big you’ll never have the ability to get ahead!”

Margie is an international speaker, bestselling author and women’s leadership coach. You can also check out her website here.

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